I am a free sprit and I love life...... I have NO time for drama and BS........so dont bring it to the table. I LIKE, what I LIKE, I WANT, what I WANT....... I know who I am and where I am going.......I guess thats a part of getting older. Life brings us all changes, it how you deal with those changes thats important.....
I SAW THIS AND THOUGHT THIS WAS AWESOME.......
I stay POSTIVE......the one thing I can say in my life, I have been blessed......No not with tons of money and riches, not with fame and fortune............But by the grace of god.....
I was blessed with 4 children and 4 grandbabies. I have strugged too...I know what it is like to be poor, too not know where you are gonna live, where your nexted meal is coming from......to be beaten by someone that say "I love you."...To be cheated on.........over and over again. BUT........I can say, I hold no dissention, I am strong, I am proud, I am all WOMEN. God has granted me this life, to take that walk with him........and to be true. I can say I am a loyal sister, daughter,mother, friend and lover. I am true to my self and to god and to you......... SO COME TAKE A WALK WITH ME.........
I like Old School....Soul and R/B, Slow Jams. Music is the window into some one. Weather it be the music we dance too or the music you make love too. As a woman I think that my job is never done........From taking care of my children to my grandchildren.....to raise and help raise, to advise and criticize all done with love. To work and build that foundation, to keep it going and to make a house a home. Lets not forget that special someone that comes into your life. To treat him as a king, to baby him when he's sick, cook for him when he's hungry and give him ass when he wants and needs it....lol ....and lets not forget to wash his draws....
MY WORLD..........MY KIDS AND GRANDKIDS....
A SISTA'S POEM AND A BROTHER'S RESPONSE
Do you qualify to be the man I need you to be? Will you be able to recognize the things you need to see? Will you be able to understand That I'm a good woman and in my life I need a good man? Do you qualify?
Do you qualify to fertilize my un-produced seeds? Can you fulfill, as I can, all of our needs? Can you put me in my place if you see I am slippin? Can you talk to me, wholeheartedly, not constantly trippin? Do you qualify?
Do you qualify to be called all mine? Can you leave the other women and temptations behind? Can you come to me with your problems and not wait until it's too late? Can you stand up and admit if you made a mistake? Do you qualify?
Do you qualify to be the honest ebony man I would want you to be? Would you be able to look me in my eyes and admit your feelings to me? Could you take me in your arms and make love to me all night long? Can you be sensitive and still be strong? Do you qualify?
Do you qualify to be my friend as well as my lover? Can you put our love before any other? Can you cherish me as if I were Diamonds & Gold? Can you make me feel like I'm the last woman you'll ever hold? Do you qualify?
Do you qualify to be called a good man? If I have doubts can you reassure me and understand? Can your love intoxicate me as if I were high? To be in my life, I need to know, Do you qualify?
THE BROTHER'S RESPONSE:
You ask, do I qualify. Can I fulfill your needs And become the man you need me to be? My sister, are you prepared for what you've asked for? Can you handle the responsibility?
Can you accept that, by GOD, I am the chosen one? The authority, the comforter, and the head. Will you submit and willingly follow my path? Or will you fight with me instead?
If I am your King, will you treat me as such? Will I get the best of your beauty and poise? Or will I be subjected to an appearance neglected, And checked with some serious noise?
When I talk, will you listen? I mean whole heartedly and feel me? Or will you rush me just to make your point too? Can I be the man at all times? Even when it hurts? Or is it just when it's convenient for you?
Can you love me for me, and not who you wish I could be? Will you see the strong Black Man within? Or will you always remind me of the all the past brothers behind me And make me pay for their sins?
If I don't send you flowers the day your co-worker received some, Will you know that I love you still? Or will my good name be uttered along with those other doggish brothers? Will you question if my commitment is real?
Will you be patient and teach me to understand you, And allow my knowledge of your needs to grow? Or will you shut me out when I ask, Baby what's wrong? Or will you respond with, "Well a REAL man would know!"
When we first met, what was it that caught your eye? Was it my mind, my heart, my personality? Or was it my suit, or my job, or do you love what I drive, Instead of what's driving me?
Yes I can, and I will, make love to you From midnight to the dawning of the sun. But, if I tell you I'm tired, will you trust I'm sincere Or believe that there must be another one?
My sister, I love you and my heart can be yours. No woman could lead me astray. But like you, I have needs, so I beg of you, please, In this love thang meet me half way.
In life's tough times I'll hold you, in the rough times I'll mold you; your simplest wish will be my command. My life is yours if need be. Yes you can fully bleed me, And when hell comes, in your place, I'll stand.
A good relationship is a powerful institution That must be built on a foundation of two. So to answer your question, YES sister, I do qualify. Now, more importantly.....! DO YOU?
IF YOU WERE THE MAN IN MY LIFE........
The man in my life!
I've never loved anyone the way that I love you. I've never known someone so well and still felt there was so much left to discover............. never been able to say "I Love You" and have it mean something beautifully different everytime........ I"ve never known someone I could spend hours with and still long for time to share.......... never felt so close to someone in so many ways. And even though I know I"LL never be able to tell you with words how much you mean to me........
I hope you somehow understand that the love I feel for you is more beautiful, more meaningful than words could ever say................
Life is to short..... Laugh when you can.... Love deeply and forgive full heartedly... Take chances, give everything with no regrets... Life is too short to be unhappy,you have to take the good with the bad.... Always forgive, but never forget.... Smile when your sad..... Smile threw the tears......and remember that everything happens for a reason.
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