About Me:
Hello and thank you for stopping by! My name is John. I am very direct and honest. Probably more than you have met in a guy. I do not play games or play with a woman's emotions. I have never had a one night stand. I give my whole heart, mind and soul and I hope to touch a woman's heart, mind, soul and funny bone. Laughter truly is the best medicine. I enjoy spending time with family and friends. I am a realist with an optimistic edge (I see the glass as it is "half" on its way to full). I say what I mean and mean what I say, so no head games. I am supportive of a woman's goals & dreams and I have many goals & dreams that I will share with that "special someone", as we take life's journey together! Enjoying the journey is as important and reaching the goals!

About My Match:
I am looking for a woman in her 20's to mid 30's. I like a woman who is romantic and passionate. I like a woman who is direct and knows what she wants. I like a woman with strong family values. It is very sexy when a woman makes the 1st move. If you are not comfortable making the 1st move, it is ok, but you need to let me know you are interested. I do not have specific type of woman like a certain color hair or eyes. She has never been married, has no children but would like to have children (very soon). I refrain from dating a woman who smokes/smoked, drinks heavily or does drugs. I have been out of the dating game for several years due to personal circumstances but they have changed. My #1 priority is finding the future "Mrs. JOHNNY VEGA$". The internet gives us the perfect opportunity to get all the basics out of the way before ever meeting face to face. Distance, age (range above) & height doesn't matter to me if it doesn't matter to you (I am 43 / 5'6"tall, live NJ 30 miles west of New York City). If U are not local and we seem compatible online, then I will come to you for live dates. If we are still going strong after live dates, I would want you to come live with me. This would be the final step before taking a vow "till death do us part". Relationships are not fill time but shared time. It is 2 people who connect physically (attraction), intellectually (enjoy conversations on many different topics) and spiritually (they enjoy being with each other and miss each other when they are apart). Honesty, Trust & Communication are Key! Life is too short to sweat the small stuff and being basically happy all the time is a good thing! So, being with someone you make happy and who makes you happy is the end all for a relationship!

If we do not match, I wish you all the best on your quest to finding that someone "special" for you!