I am a mother to four wonderful children ages 1,3,5,and 7. I am very active in there lives meaning its taken me 3 hours to type this up because I keep leaving to play with my kids :). I don't really cook, I clean about as much as I want to, and I enjoy my kids and husband one day at a time. If your all wrapped up in what your house looks like or what type of shoes your child wears you are going to miss them growing up.