I am NOT a drama-whore (on Fu or elsewhere)...keep your drama to yourself & stay away from me pls. I aim to stay off the radar entirely.
I only 'point whore' part time...you can find me in the MuMM's usually. I have zero interest in your lounge, I've tried it & really just can't get into it. Please don't leave lounge comments/invites on my page ~ they WILL be deleted.
I've also decided, upon cleaning my overpopulated, but never communicated with, friends list...if I don't actually talk/communicate/connect with someone, they just don't belong on my friends list. Bartab was WAYYYY too cluttered with crap, I was missing the stuff I actually gave a crap to see up there. Sooo...no add w/o conversation & connect, no add if the friend request is totally blank, and potentially no salute also = no add. Tired of fakes.
I am not here to show my naughty parts to anyone, so asking me will get you absolutely nowhere...nor will I go looking for your NSFW photos, or rate them...so, don't ask & we will get along just fine. In all honesty, I find it quite humorous that people actually post that crap on here...
Julz doesn't do NSFW. Period.
Not on here to hook up, or date anyone local...or even necessarily meet anyone in person. I like chatting & enjoy talking to new people. I will pretty much talk to anyone, as long as you are respectful. (ps. that means keep it in your pants & outta my shoutbox ~ PUN INTENDED)
My fu-fam are people that I know in real life & fu people that I have been talking to for a while. They are the awesomest of the awesome and I heart them bunches!!! Takes time to be on fam list...oh, and, regarding the 'private' folder...ur really not missing anything there I PROMISE, and just by adding me to ur fam, will NOT get me to add you to mine. Lo Siento.
My shout settings are "salute only". This will not be changed. I've found there's quite a few fakes on here & I really don't care to get to know you if you're fake or falsely advertising yourself. Make a salute...problem solved! =)
Love visiting with my older sister & niece near Boston (when sis isn't being a jerk ~ we're currently a bit estranged). Adore my niece! I have a couple pics on here posted of me & her...was somewhat hesitant to post those...considered cropping her out, but I love those pictures so much BECAUSE she's in them with me. When I look at them, I just see a truly happy me.
Anddd...that brings us to the family tree. Its all AFU. I am the middle child...kinda. Two half brothers, two half sisters...all paternal..and a step brother. Only child to mom & was raised as such. I had the 'only child' spoiled brat thing going on as a kid...and have (mostly) outgrown it as an adult.
I am not perfect. Human, and as such, fallible. I do not require perfection...it's the imperfections' that define you. I understand others aren't mistake proof as well, and am capable of forgiveness if I deem worthy. Patient and yet occasionally impatient. Picky eater & working on being non-picky. I always try to treat others as I would want to be treated. I am quite observant & like to learn a person by their actions...not just words. (actions speak much louder & generally don't lie) Stubborn sometimes & beyond willing to compromise others. Little bit on the sarcastic side...but mostly in jovial fashion. Love to see new sights & learn new things (as frustrating as the latter can be sometimes) I pride myself on being an extremely loyal friend & am quite protective of those closest to me. I tend to be the "mother hen" or "big sister" type to most...quite possibly my lot in life. To go along with the love for sappy music & cuddles (listed below)...I am very much the romantic. I love with my whole heart & soul. I always follow my intuition as it never steers me wrong & therefor no regrets.
I think I've rambled on enough for now...mayyybe I'll add more another day. *shrug* Guess if you want to know more, ask away...
Music:
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(last updated:February 9, 2009 @ 1:45 pm)
I used to think I was somewhat indifferent to music - yeah, I like it..but could go without it...then I lost my iPod ~ NOOOOOO!!! Needless to say, it was replaced very VERY quickly because apparently I cant function without access to it.
LOVE LOVE LOVE: 3DD, Staind, & Daughtry (lately) ((...ok, who am I kidding...borderline 3DD retarded))
A little playlist which will be changed randomly when I feel like it....soooo, check back often?!? er somethin.
NON-twangy country (I guess it'd be considered "pop-country" ~ Faith Hill, Tim McGraw, Lonestar...)
Rock & (some) metal...long time fan of Metallica & have seen them live 6 times now - back in the Newstead days (in my opinion, he kinda made the show) *side note* I was informed my rock preferences are considered 'vajayjay rock"...anddd, Pfft whateve, because you don't have to listen to it with me if you don't want to!
Anddd...somewhere among the above mentioned genres' includes sappy chicky love songs. I'm a sap & ♥ ♥ ♥ love songs!
I love knowing lyrics verbatim & singing along with my favorite songs in the Jeep (and at live shows) as loudly as I can...mostly staying 'in key' (or at least that's how it sounds in my head anyway).
Interests:
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B*I*G fan of movies ~ they take me out of my own life for a while. I have a fairly vivid imagination & can wrap myself into almost all movies. Comedy, Action, Sci-Fi, "chick flicks", even cartoons! Love em! Because of my stupid vivid imagination, I have issues w/scary movies & monsters (excluding vampires, for some reason, they're OK)...I know...soooo lame! I keep trying though, (every once in a while), in hopes that one day...I too, can sit through a whole scary movie & not have nightmares or sleep issues.
LOVE Harry Potter!!! Yepp...I'm a geek & proud! Counting down til the last book is released into movie form(s). I'm not the complete dork that draws the lightning bolt on my forehead...but yeah, I'm there opening night...with a BIG ole cheesy smile!
Other non-movie interests:
Dancing & shaking my booty! (actually want to take ballroom & swing dancing lessons some day)
Water sports/boating (finally learned how to water ski last summer) I really want to learn to surf! LOVE the water! I own 7 bikinis & look to expand my collection.
Traveling & getting away, even if just for a weekend ~ seeing new sights!
Silly old board games.
SOME video games...not a big time 'gamer', but I am a old school fan of Mario, Sonic, & Donkey Kong. Girly games: my friend calls it "fluffy bunny" graphics.
Cuddling!!! (I'm a bigggg cuddler with my special someone)
I enjoy doing different things. Billiards, Bowling, Putt putt, darts...I'm not competitive at all or super sporty. Sooo, as long as you're not a sore winner, I promise to (probably try) not to be a sore loser & pout...when the inevitable happens. LOL
Only drink socially, rarely ever 'tie one on'. Some of my closest friends have never yet seen me drunk. I just don't like a hangover! (or feeling out of control) Anddd, I don't smoke anything...just not my thing. What can I say, I'm the coolest dork I know. (which makes me pretty lame in itself) haha
Guess you could say I'm somewhat of a homebody. I like a nice dinner out, or cooking something, staying in & renting a movie.
...there's obviously more to me interest-wise than just this...but now you have a litter sliver of what makes Julz tick.