I AM JUST HERE TO MEET FRIENDS AND RATE PIX, BUY MY FRIENDS DRINKS OR WHATEVER. I DO NOT AND AM NOT LOOKING FOR ONLINE LOVE! OMG! I DO NOT DO CYBER SEX!! YOU DON'T GET MY MESSENGER ID UNLESS I KNOW YOU! YES I HAVE YAHOO!! BUT I DO NOT WANT TO YAHOO WITH YOU OR SHOW YOU WHAT I CAN DO TO MYSELF. OMG COME ON GUYS!! I AM HERE TO MEET FRIENDS TO CHAT WITH AND THAT BEING SAID: about me: widowed, (not by choice), living and working in santa rosa, california. i have 2 sons ages 19 an 11. they live with their dad.(from a previous relationship). i work at a local thrift shop. i like doing all kinds of stuff, going to flea markets, looking anywhere for that bargain. i collect all kinds of stuff, wood boxes, rocks, indian stuff, coca cola stuff, like making jewelry, like having real people around me. i like working on computers. i love music!! all kinds. rock, metal, blues,(Tommy Castro Band ROCKS!), love linkin park. spending time with my kids and just doing whatever as long as there is no drama. don't do drugs or drink alcohol. i smoke cigarettes and drink coffee.i am a real person and expect to hear only from other real people. so, drop me a line. all my friends tell me i tend to be one crazy momma and that is me!!