50 years in a few paragraphs -- tough task. I am 52, quite male, Single, 6 foot tall and I would still be large even if I wasn't overweight. I am in a r/l relationship with guineagirl but it is an open relationship and we both see others. I tend toward close long term relationships. I don't smoke or do drugs. I don't drink often or much. But I don't get on the case of people who do. It's your life; you live it and live with the consequences. I'm very into informed consent and personal responsibility for both me and others. I try to say what I mean and mean what I say.

I hate drama. Too much of it in my life lately. I hope it is over.

I love music. I play Electric Bass and only have 5 of them at home along with a bunch of electronics. I was in a alternative original band until Dec 19, 2007 when the band imploded. With talent goes ego. I have played in most every genre from jazz and classical to death metal, but my heart is in Hard rock/"melodic" metal with strong attractions to "classic" rock and the entire world of The Blues. I jam whenever I can, frequently several times a week and I think I am well thought of in those quarters. Need a bass player in the East Valley of Phoenix? Msg me here. I also have a strong PA in Colorado and often have run sound for other people.

I live in Colorado Springs, Colorado in the USA. I am on an extended stay in Scottsdale near Phoenix, Arizona to take care of my parents since my mother's heart surgery in late January. (She is recovering remarkably well, thanks for asking) and will probably be here until sometime in mid-May. I am going nuts trying to find local friends to go out with and go to movies. Anyone in the Phoenix area want to go to a movie?

I tend to be a hopeful romantic, and sorry but no ink yet. But I am still looking...