I am a guy whom's mother thinks is the greatest :jump:

To be honest, i used to be a player, but have grown out of that. Now, I hate to see people come and go in my life.

I'm tired of the going to bars, getting hammerheaded (username), and then wondering what the name of the girl is your waking up with the next morning :drinking:.

I was married from the age of 19 to 23 - many moons ago. It wasn't bad, we were just too young and lived in Southern California. From 23 to about 35.5, more than 10 years, I've lived like this lifestyle, so I should be tired of it, right!

I know that sounds bad (even thought about deleting it) but it has been reality for me, at least up to about a year or two ago.

Why am I being so honest as to probably cost me a few matches on here? Because "Honesty is the Best Policy", "You Live and you Learn", and all those old cliche's seem to be coming true in my life here lately!

Especially the one that goes "Better to have Learned Late in Life, than Never to have Learned at All". I don't know if that one already existed or if I just made it up for my life, but I believe it's just as true as the others.

So I'll say again that I left the whole feeling like an empty shell thing, and now I really do hate to see people just come and go in my life, especially a possible soul mate.

I'm tired of one night stands, that I do know, but what I get mostly is "what are the things you're looking for in a girl".

I dont't really know the answer to that question yet, but I know I'll have one when I meet "her".

I know that sounds bad (even thought about deleting it) but it has been reality for me, at least up to about a year or two ago.

Why am I being so honest as to probably cost me a few matches on here? Because "Honesty is the Best Policy", "You Live and you Learn", and all those old cliche's seem to be coming true in my life here lately!

Especially the one that goes "Better to have Learned Late in Life, than Never to have Learned at All". I don't know if that one already existed or if I just made it up for my life, but I believe it's just as true as the others.

So I'll say again that I left the whole feeling like an empty shell thing, and now I really do hate to see people just come and go in my life, especially a possible soul mate.

I'm tired of one night stands, that I do know, but what I get mostly is "what are the things you're looking for in a girl".

Really, the answer is, I don't know yet, but I'll know when I find "her".