my name is jay. aka black lavender. i am not looking for a wife just good times and mabye some boobies. i love older women becase there is less drama. i just want to have fun. whatever happens happens. i will not be tied down with relationships. i say whats on my mind. i dont say what you wanna hear.

i play basketball and hockey. im original from canada. i dont change for anyone. dont like what you see or here to bad. i am who i am. i love to laugh and make people around me have fun. i smile alot and very rarely get mad.
i speak french, english and arabic. i would like to learn to sign but we will see.

i just started back at school. what a shock. i study criminal justice.

i spent 9 years in the army. 3 years in the infantry and 6 as military police. i have worked at the 2002 olympics and rodeo fires. i spent 2 and a half years in iraq, had fun but lost friends. RIP Allen and Robinson and all the 860th mp co that were hurt.

to see a video of my unit go to youtube search "860th mp blown away"