well news as it is is that my father is going in for radiation in the next week or two....apparently five days for five weeks.......grrrrrrrr why does bad always happen to the good...says he don't want nobody commin up till things are a lil more settled, which yeah i can understand, not like he don't have fam up that way to help him out but sure wish i cld b there through the tough times to help....guess all i can do is hope for the best for now *pouts*