I have been staing in constand contact with both my mother in Utah and my Ex lover here in CA.
My mother is doing better. She has not told me yet wen she is going to have her sargay to get her histrectamy. But I have a feeling everything will go well for her. She is a stong woman and she has a wonderful husband whome will take kare of her while she heals.
As for Mathew my ex lover, I do not much. He is dong about the same. His doing a bit better though. The docters were going to put in on dialises. But they have found they do not need. to. As for his blod presure it is stell going up and down. more the the docters want it to. And I am not sure about his inlarged hart. I am hoping that will be ok as well. I may not be his lover now. But I steel have stong feelings for him. I think of him often and wish him the best.