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| | Understanding with age |
| created @ 11/22/2017 03:32 am |
| mum expired. [EVERYONE] |
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| Late last night I woke up with a bad dream, grabbed my phone and scrolled FB so I could fall back asleep. On the newsfeed it has stuff that ppl put on friend's pages, there was a message to my nephew expressing the disbelief and sadness of his mom passing. My nephew is grown with 2 kids of his own. When his mom and my brother dated, I was about 3yrs old. My brother is 14yrs older than me. When I was 5 I remember my brother having a baby, I remember holding him, then I remember him not being there anymore and my brother going crazy. His girlfriend took off with the baby when the baby was a lil over a year old. Years and years went by, memory faded, brother moved on but was never right. Then when I was 16yrs old, I was getting ready to go to the mall with my friend and the doorbell rang, opened it up and this big kid,13yrs old, all scratched up with a bent bike tire outside my door said, "Hi, are you my Aunt"....turned out his mom split to the town over...turned out that my parents ran into the mom 2x in the 12 yrs he was missing, but his mom convinced my parents it was for the best. From that day of re-meeting him, we became very close. He didn't tell me about his mom, he didn't call or come over.... for once in my life, I don't know how I should handle this. I don't hold resentment towards her,yea, it sucked ass taking my nephew away from me, but that was his mom's decision and I respect that. Should I .... |
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