It always happens like this... I meet a guy and think things are going well, and then we "do it", I never really hear from them again or whatever unless they want "it" again. I am getting tired of it. No you are not going to get "it" again if that is the only time you are going to talk to me. Am I just do-able? Is there something about me that makes one unable to actually date me and pursue a long term relationship? I know I have a kid and all, and I am not looking for a "baby daddy" she has a father, and whether or not he wants to claim her, she still has one. I am not tryin to replace him. But, being that I am a single mom, I cant just "casual" date. I guess now I should start dating persons with children of their own now. It might make things easier and they would understand more about all of it. When will I just find a decent man and be happy and have my own family, a complete family???