41 year old father of 2. Looking for that special man to share my life with. Yes I am gay. I came out to all my family and friends in 2002. Just could not live a lie anymore. I had to be me, not someone else. IF you are a straight man and I rate your pics, fan you, or add you as a friend, it's because I want to be friends and chat. DOES NOT mean I want to bed you. I have plenty of friends who are straight and thats all they are are FRIENDS. Now, if you have no problem chatting with a gay man, lets be friends and chat. NASCAR fans are a big plus for me.