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 Mwah!  | | toxic relationships |
| created @ 04/22/2016 08:56 pm |
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no matter the gender but including toxic relationships could you or I be in one? If you can identify please let me know I'm not the only one who thinks this is a problem. I personally am feeling like these are some key points that hit home.
1. It seems like you cant do anything right The other person constantly puts you down as not good enough. They mock your personality, and you feel ashamed most of the time. You only feel pardoned when you take on the traits of the person doing the condemning or judging.
2. Everything is about them and never about you You have feelings too, but the other person wont hear them. Youre unable to have a two-sided conversation where your opinion is heard, considered, and respected. Instead of acknowledging your feelings, they battle with you until they get the last word.
3. You find yourself unable to enjoy good moments with this person Every day brings another challenge. It seems as though they are always raising gripes about you. Their attempt to control your behavior is an attempt to control your happiness.
4. Youre uncomfortable being yourself around that person You dont feel free to speak your mind. You have to put on a different face just to be accepted by that person. You realize you dont even recognize yourself anymore.
5. Youre not allowed to grow and change Whenever you aim to grow and improve yourself, the other person responds with mockery and disbelief. There is no encouragement or support for your efforts. Instead, they keep you stuck in old judgments insisting that you will never be any different than you are now.
If youre experiencing even just one of these signs, check in with yourself to see if the relationship is doing more damage than good. |
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