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Tonight

So I was at work (I work the door at a neighborhood bar), when a conversation started about men being losers. Seeing as how I'm a guy I sort of had to defend the rest of my species, at least in general principle. Four ladies, all enjoying themselves and a little tipsy, and all very attractive, in that normal girl-next-door kind of way, began talking about loser guys and jerk boyfriends and the general shit they have to deal with. All of the girls brought up the fact that they have been with men who physically abused them and how they were in these relationships for long periods of time, one for nearly six years. Now first of I want to state that any man who hits a woman with violent intent (I'm not talking about BDSM play and the 'spankings' some naughty girls need)is the lowest piece of pond scum imaginable. I've seen what kind of man hits a woman (my sperm donor) and it sickens me. What I want to know is why these women stay or continue to seek out these men in their lives? I know all the psychological crap about feelings of inadequacy, seeking their father's approval and all the other stuff spewed out. I know that the cycle of abuse is almost impossible to break free from. I know all the answers given. But ladies let me tell you something. No matter how weak a man tries to make you feel, and trust me a lot of men need to break a woman's spirit down and crush it, you need to quit selling yourselves short. If you're to weak to break free think about this, you're strong enough to stand up after he puts his hands on you. You are strong enough to do it. And once you're free trust me there are guys out there who are better than that. Don't think you aren't worthy of one of those guys. IN the mean time if you need someone to have a talk with the jackass, let me know. I'm really good at adjusting attitudes, and ever since I outgrew my dad no man has laid a hand on a woman that I couldn't deal with. A size 15 shoe is a great way to make a point. Call me.
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