.I'm currently going through a divorce and have a son. I got married six months after I graduated and then had my baby boy..see I got married first then had my child, I did everything the right way or so I thought.. I found out my husband cheated on me and left him...not going into details here..but anyway I say that so u know where I am coming from.
So, I talk to guys on this and in my daily life not wanting to get with a guy just friendship and as soon as they find out you have a kid..they want nothing to do with you... I'm not asking you to be my babys father or to support me nigga's I'm merely talking to you as a friend...My question is why is it more exceptable for a man to have a child and us as woman except it...but if you're a single mother u are looked down upon and judged? Or is it because you would rather not care for another man's child or show them love?
In my case I did everything right and still ended up with a dog and would rather not be with a cheater but in today's society it's as if they expect you to stay with the loser....sorry not gonna happen with me, I dont care if I end up lonely forever. Once a cheater will always be a cheater.
Guys be honest and I would love your feedback...dont read and not answer give me your honest opinion!