Self Approval....
Its kills me how people will do or say what ever to try and "prove something to others" when all they are doing is trying to prove something to themselves. If you feel you need to prove something to the world, by glorifiying your life or what have you, then you obiously know deap down in your heart that something is not right. you are either threatened or afraid. If you are spending that much time and energy attempting to prove, what ever it may be that u desire people to see and yourself to have its no wonder you dont have it! If you that sort of additude towards life, your not going to get the results you desire!
Selfishness...
1: concerned excessively or exclusively with oneself : seeking or concentrating on one's own advantage, pleasure, or well-being without regard for others
2: arising from concern with one's own welfare or advantage in disregard of others selfish act>
If you are so selfish you can not see past your own needs and wants so that the ones you claim to love suffer and cause pain to innocent ones that do not deserve to be caught in the crossfires of your self obsorbancies such as children, signifagant others, friends, siblings or what have you, then you reap what you sow! Eventually things will catch up with you! Karma has a quaint way....
In closing....
I for one am not the type of person that feels I need to prove anything to anyone or myself, and do not feel that I need anything or anyone enough to hurt others or prevent anyone from being with another that they long to be with!
Yours Truely,
Jess
