Stay the hell away from these people they will only bring you down.
It's always the same. They go from being extremely caring and loving to hating you within seconds. They wont show there true side of who they really are until they have you hooked and emotional attachments are formed. Once they know they have you the madness begins. They will rage at you for no reason, be abusive, want nothing to do with you, become extremely clingy, and smear campaign you to everyone.
The relationships never work out because ultimately you are their trigger. Infact borderlines behaviors get worse when they enter a relationship. These people can never keep it together, as hard as they try to act normal they can not sustain it for any reason. Infact.. Normal is very scary to them..
How to Spot a Borderline?
They will tell you they love you within 2 weeks
They will tell you their darkest secrets very fast
They will put you a pedestal and idealize you
They will force a bond very fast that does not exist
They will share many of your thoughts, interests, and desires
They will usually hate their family or have family problems
You will notice that the person is damaged but will overlook these things because of how wonderful they seem to be.
If you see these signs RUN! and do not look back. These people are ***** insane and will have you questioning your own sanity. Nothing you do can help them, only long term therapy can. They will only take advantage of your kindness use you for everything you have and then drop you like you never meant anything to them at all. They are not sociopaths but they might as well be considering they arent able to have empathy for people because they are too caught up in their own problems. They see people as a resource, they want to be distracted from feeling crappy all the time. Some use relationships, some use drugs, every borderline acts maladaptive and lack healthy ways to cope. You may think they care about you but they don't. (they may care in their own way but..)
