There are some people I just use for points because I want to get some of the benefits on the site. Others I'm actually (virtual) friends with. If you prove to me you're not just in it for the points yourself, and that, like me, you really do want to know some of the people here, then you might find yourself on my "family" list. Yes, I'm a crazy flirt sometimes, but I'm not usually serious about it. My crush is real.