I haven't been much of a "mumm" person on here, but I have been one to observe all that goes on here on Fubar. The bulletins, the blasts, the blogs, and what-not. And I'm not a fool, I know that this place is based on visual perception as the core principle of social interaction. In other words, the "hotter" you are, the more likely someone (especially of the opposite sex) will want to get to "know" you.
And yes, physical appearance and looks are very important to first impressions in life. But after a while, you have to have some kind of substance. A curvy ass and great tits can only take you so far. But I'm seeing more and more women on here taking that angle to get more "popular" or more interaction . And we're all adults, more power to you if you feel that it works for you. But at the same time, these same individuals moan, whine, bitch, and complain about how so many people only ask to see their private folder, and make little to no attempt to get to "know" them.
So you mean if I make some half-ass attempt to know trivial facts about you and your life, I get to see what only a few special ones in your intimate world should be allowed to see. And if I come across as somewhat interested in your character, I get to see your tits.
That's kinda flimsy, and dangerously naive. Your pictures are a representation of you, but they are not the definition of you. To put so much weight and emphasis on your outside image, is setting yourself up for an easy downfall. Now don't get me wrong, I love a physically amazing woman. I love to look at em, hell, I have my gold membership card to plenty of strip clubs. But I know that it's not deeper than that. It's just the image.
And if you're proud of your body, and you're a free-spirit who loves to showcase yourself, or fancy yourself an exhibitionist, then by all means, DO YOU BOO!!! But if that's the case, why all the hurdles to jump? Doesn't matter who's looking, just as long as they're looking. But if you feel that you're private "stash" is so precious and priceless, that you have to put it under cyber-lock and key, then spare yourself the future stress and drama, and keep em on your flash memory card. Only the true, sincere individuals in your life should be privy to that stash. And it also will cut down on the overabundance of "about me" sections of profiles and bulletins whining about being harrassed about your private folder.
But hey, that's just my opinion......my word ain't law......
