Hey ladies how about this CRAZY IDEA...
women say they want friendships first. then when a guy becomes a great friend they say...i dont want to ruin our friendship. girls say that want men to be gentleman and pay for things and open doors - then complain because they are independent. Women say that want someone to shower them with affection and love - then when we do..we are too clingy. women say they want a guy that actually listens - and when we do... even though we listened some how we didnt hear you.
ok yeah so how about this one...in general...PICK ONE SIDE OF THE FENCE AND STAY THERE... yes guys know what women want (generally) but for the specifics...um we cant read minds...SO TELL US WHAT YOU WANT! then leave it up to us to give it to you. If we dont...MOVE ON...if we do..STICK AROUND. Actually its quite simple.
And another thing...LADIES...GUYS FIX THINGS...so if you have a problem and you tell us about it, we are going to try and fix it...if you dont want us to give you our $0.02 and try and fix your problem. um DONT TELL US THE PROBLEM. or how about this one...tell us ahead of time - YOURE JUST VENTING... if we know that...we can handle it. If you care about us, tell us.
AND FOR GODS SAKE LADIES...if you have a guy friend that is always there when you need him, always there to be that shoulder to cry on, always there to tell you that you are so much better then your loser ex made you feel, and tells you all the time that you are beautiful, and he jokes about loving you or the guy that tells you, if we are still single at 30 - we are marrying eachother...
OK HERE IS THE DEAL WITH THAT ONE... PLAIN AND SIMPLE>>> THE MAN LOVES YOU...Give him a chance. you know hes the one that has all the things you want in a man...(ladies be honest) if it wasnt the case you would have stopped calling his ass a long time ago. Just give the guy a shot.
ok well yeah now that i rambled for a few... i hope that one person reads this and actually gets what im trying to say. and if you agree or disagree drop me a line and tell me what you think. and if you just dont want to admit that what i said was true. then...wel...um...i feel sorry for all the shy guys who are just too scared to tell the women in their lives how much they care about them and cant dream of facing the world without them. and ladies yes, thats why guys like this put up with just keeping you as a friend. because they cant imagine their lives without the ones that they are there for. If that person wasnt in their lives they would be lacking some sense of purpose. because their role of keeping that friend of theirs happy and smiling in the worst of times, is what makes them wake up in the morning.
ok well just thought i would let some of you know...
