So, the girl who lost it all in the first part of this blog got a second chance. We made up like nothing had happened (became friends again and then bam, it happened all over again. We had made plans to hang out on New Years' Eve about three months ago. She was aware of these plans, then all of a sudden this past Friday night, she decided that she had more important things to do, and she was going to blow me off for New Years, which we had planned for long ago. I tried to get in touch with her all evening and all night last night, but she just ignored me completely. Back when we were together, she was always the optimist talking about if we had a problem we should talk about it. Today I got bored and ended up calling her house, thinking that I may be able to reach her there. Her mother answered the phone and asked me if everything was ok, and I was like "No, because I have been ignored for no apparent reason for the last 12-15 hours." She then told me that all girls are finicky and said that she didn't know what was going on and would have her get back to me later this afternoon. Eventually, this afternoon, she called me and we talked. I asked her what the hell she was thinking and why she was ignoring me. She claimed that she was not ignoring me, just that she was busy with something else. So I am like...you can ignore me while you are all pro-talking, and it is ok. Eventually it boiled down to the fact that she said she is really confused and doesn't know if we are right for each other in whatever fashion. So I was like, ok whatever. Then she kept talking, and she said that her mom talked with her earlier, and her mom told her that she could never love me or care about me as a friend the way I care about her, because I called today concerned wondering why she had been unresponsive, and her mom was like there is no way that you can treat him the way he treats you, no matter what you are. She told me that this was all confusing to her. So she told me that she needed a little time to think things through, and after the New Year, we would sit down, and try and start our friendship over again. But the LAST THING I TOLD HER was "REALIZE WHAT ALL IS AT STAKE HERE, because if you make the wrong decision, I am gone." I also told her that I was tired of running around in circles, and the last time we stopped talking, she was on the whole "I need to think things through bandwagon" which she is getting back on now. And last but not least, the last time we stopped talking, she said that the more time we didn't talk, the worse things got. I then asked her why she made that choice, and offered it to me as a resolution, which she had no response to.
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