Why does life seem so cruel at times? Doe sit enjoy playing cruel games with emotions and hearts? The one true gift in this world is to love and be loved unconditionally. That is the meaning of life. Why is it so difficult for so many to accept? Why must true and tried relationships end over the most minor of situations?
Why does life throw these emotions of blissfullness at you, only to rip them away? Why doe sit allow you to try so very hard and succeed so very far only to end in failure? I am a good person and I give all of my heart fully. Does that mean that I am always to be hurt by doing so? When I say I love someone, I am fully prepared to love that person and only that person for the rest of my life. Unconditionally. That means no matter what. I accept all that they are and were. I overlook little nuisances and forgive the major ones. Isn't that the meaning of true love? Isn't that how love is supposed to be? Not controlling but accepting. Questions will arise , yes. That does not mean it is accusing. It is just what it is. A question and after the answer is revealed then all is well.
Yes, I have been through alot. I have been used and hurt many times by relationships. At times it is hard for me to trust. That does not mean that it is hard for me to love. I am forgiving and understanding. i more than willing to make changes and compromises for the one I love. THAT is true love. I wonder if anyone else even fathoms the meaning of those words anymore.
I love you means so much more to me than anyone can imagine. It means that I am yours and only yours. It means that I am fully prepared to love you for the rest of my life. I don't give up at the first sign of problems. I don't walk away. I confront them head on and work through them as best I know how. Giving up is too easy to do. The real challenge is to work through the problems because the love and relationship is so worthit. Succeeding over these problems will only benefit the relationship and make it that much stronger. When you reach the other side....the landscape will be that much lovelier.
