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The Dating Game

As it applies to real life of course.It seems to me that today dating isn't even worth trying anymore. It is a wasted effort. If you are not the hottest thing around you really don't have a chance with the opposite sex in your area. Men and women are both guilty of it, so don't say it is only the other sex that does it.I see it everyday, people ruining good relationships over the next " Hottie" that comes along. They also ignore potential lifetime mates to chase these impossible dreams of happy ever after with these fake or uninterested people. WAKE UP PEOPLE! You are setting yourself up for failure for which when you do settle down with someone, that someone will not be able to A)live up to those standards or B)have to put up with the emotional and sometimes physical baggage that you bring into the relationship. Now I know they say it is healthy to dream, but I think it is highly unhealthy to chase a dream that you honestly know is never going to be happy. If you are looking for somebody that is only physically atttractive to you ,but is not mentally and emotional compatable as well, you are just wasting your time and setting yourself up for a hard fall. Especially if you are one of these people who is in a relationship and is still chasing somebody else. Think about and then ask yourself how it would fell if somebody was actively doing that to you. I know we are all human, at least originally, but use your brains. Life might just be a little happier for you and those you care about.

Open your Eyes

I have a question people. Is it just me or have we taken too much time worrying about the rest of the world? I think that we need to take a look at our own backyard before we play in anothers. It doesn't take rocket scientist to figure out that if we paid more attention to what goes on here, it might just be a liitle better here at home. I trust that you do pay attention at home some. Right? okay maybe not. That is just my point.There are a lot of things going on here at home that need our input.(Take your pick, there are alot to choose from.) Try the goverment educational process(aka the reeducation need).catering to the average or in some cases below average students in our schools. Instead try catering to all students according to their level and ability.Maybe then we wouldn't rank so low worldwide in literacy and scholastic achievement. Base our economy off what it originally was intended to be....free enterprise. You earn it ,you keep it. Plain and simple really. I'm not bitching I am just stating what I think. Hey, maybe I'm wrong.(Not! or at least I don't believe so.) If you have any input of your own leave a comment.
Everybody talks about " The Norm". Define normal. I can't because for me it is different than most other peoples ideas. Who is to say what is normal and what is not? I have a thought, I'm normal and everybody else is crazy. I don't think that works either.I know I'm off my rocker. How about you? Ever stopped to think about it.Everybody is crazy in their own way. Everybody has strange hangups. What do you think fetishes are?Now there are extremes in every scenario ie.... Mass murderers,rapists,child molesters, but they're not crazy, just sick. Majorly sick. So i say to all those people who told they are totally crazy......ENJOY IT! Just remember that sanity is for the weak minded. Why be normal?

Life Without Love

Hey there people! I haven't written in a while and am probably a little rusty when it comes to blogs that aren't a bitch session. I am sitting here just thinking about what life without love would be like.It is just something I can not imagine being without.There are so many forms of love out there that I can't even begin to keep up with them all, much less understand them all.Though if they disappeared I would probably feel lost without them. There is so many forms of love, be it family, friends or just a good time.They enrich our lives. They make life something worth living.Worth enjoying. Giving us something to respect, to look foward to, even to the point of embarassment at times. It is worth it though.It is something that I,personally, couldn't live without. Little things like the love of good food, is something happy,but the love of our children or the love towards our parents is a very special thing that should never be forgotten or misused. I just cannot imagine a world where no love exists.That would be a sad, sad day for all of humankind.We as human beings need to insure that love remains in this world forever.If we all would just promote a little more love in our lives it could and will grow into something extraordinary in times to come. For our children and grandchildrens sakes,for all people yet to come, we should expound the love for all the world to see and feel. Let it be for everyone everywhere.
Well let us see if I can piss a few people off tonight. I have been sitting here pondering on things(yes I'm using my brain for once), and I have a question for the whole country. When somebody commits a crime should the punishment be based on the severity and type of crime or should it be a set of semi-useless rules that half of the time don't apply in the first place? The way it is now the quasi-law system is made up of semi-useful most of the time useless laws and rules.Let's take capital crimes to start with: Murder: A persons life has been removed never to return to their friends, family or others who share in that life. what should the punishment be? In most states natural life is all that they can get as a max sentence. Screw that shit if a person takes anothers life without justifiable cause or need, should be bereft of his/her own life(and save the tax payers alot of money ). Rape: A persons natural trust in society has been destroyed they have had their bodies, minds and souls violated and tainted.Again most states will not consider the death penalty. In this I agree.The rapist should be castrated if a male.Then that person should be forced to watch the victims family tell the absolute Hell the victim went through. Over and over and over!Then they should find the biggest mother fucking guy in the penitentery and let them ass rape them as many times as that person commited rape.(I.E.....convicted of 5 counts rape, raped 5 times by Bubba)Oh yeah Bubba or Thunderdick(courtesy of Ron White) has his dick wrapped in a condom that has been dipped in cinnamon oil.We need a condom so he don't contract anything from the scum. Child Molestation: The act of forcing a child to do,see, perform or be involved in a sexual act.Think about this a moment.... this person has just raped a child not only physically,but mentally. This is a child for God's sake!They don't even understand what has happened to them because of their age in a lot of cases. These people should be hung in public!Fuck the stupid shit! Fuck my taxes paying for them to have 3 square meals a day and a warm, dry bed!Hang them and make sure they don't get their neck broken,but suffer death by slow suffocation! I know that some of you bleeding hearts say that they should be rehabilitated. Give them a second chance.Fuck that and Fuck you!For a person to be rehabilitated for society they had to be habilitated in the first place.These sick fucks are not able for rehabilitation.Do you realize what the percentage of revolving door criminals that fall into these three catagories?Over 38% of revolving door criminals have been convicted of these crimes and were released to commit them again!Supposedly rehabilitated.(Yeah right!) I know that I sound like a killer myself, but guess what I'm not.I'm just a person who has paid attention to the crime rate continually riseing scince the first of these so called passive sentencing laws and rules came into effect.The passive laws do not prevent crime and in some cases actually promote thits abuse.That is fucked up! Now people I don't care if you do or don't agree with me.I want your honest opinions on what you think about the topic.
Blind dates worth it or not? I'm not sure. I have heard that they do and don't work. Personally I've never actually been on one. Friends have tried toset me up on them,but.... well lets put it this way,my friends may know me but they don't know me that well. I swear match makers can be a royal pain in the ass!They aren't happy with the way you look for a propective mate so they stick their nose in where it doesn't belong.A Dios mio!I mean I know they are friends but why can't I do it my way? I'm happy with the way I do things.No I may be single right now, but I'm picky. I had to learn the hard way about what I wanted.Been burned way to many times to not be picky! I know I'm bitching right now.I need to say this.If you are trying to play matchmaker for a friend*(unless they asked you to), leave it be!I know you are trying to help thjem because they are your friend. What makes you think that you know what is right for them? Hell! They might not even know what they want their damn selves. In the end what I'm trying to sayis this: Let people choose for themselves. Be supportive. Be their friend.Just don't risk a chance of damaging that friendship by putting yourself in a situation that may backfire on you.
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