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I've been thinking about these three words that have been tossed around to me and many others. Those words would be "I love you"

I love you....Doesnt sound like that would be a tough thing to hear right?...I mean, I HAVE love for lots of people..meaning I care if they live or die or get hurt. But to Truly Love someone....Truly...those things don't happen overnight. Even if you've talked to someone over the phone, internet or text for years.

Once you meet in person its as if you are learning about that person all over. Because people can and do appear on their best behavior when they aren't in front of you...You never really know someone until you've known them in person for a while...and even then..sometimes you don't see the real deal.

Why people easily toss these three words around is beyond me. I wonder if when they use these words do they know the impact it can bring? I look at it this way. If you can toss those words around as easily as say "Hi" or "GoodMorning". Then you don't know what it means and don't mean it. You might love BEING WITH that person, or be in LUST WITH..but Love?...NO.....Love is a feeling that builds over time and after getting to really know someone in person...Maybe those words are said because they desperately want someone to love them and they figure that by saying those words enough to someone that maybe they will finally reciprocate it...Kinda one of those "fake it till ya make it" kinda things.

Look, we all want to be loved..Its human nature. It's something we desire, crave and need. I'm just saying to think hard and long before you toss those words around. Mean it before you say it...and don't just say it because you feel it for that particular moment in time...as wonderful as it feels to have someone tell you those words....It can cause so much pain when you find out those words are said without the true meaning behind them.

The heart is such a delicate organ...Once its broken...it will take time to heal and once healed will be tightly protected from future hurts. You can't just turn love off from one person and quickly move to the next...Real love doesnt work that way...

 

 

And if you come to me with those words.. especially after we've only known each other IN PERSON for a few hours, days or weeks......Then expect to see a trail of smoke as I'm making my quick exit....I've learned my lesson.........That goes for you too...If someone says those words too soon...Take that as a warning...as quick as they can tell you those words... they can tell someone else the same thing.....soon as they walk out your door and into someone elses..

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