Please excuse any typos....I just had wrist surgery and typing with one hand is harder then I thought it would be.
I feel bad for those people who find the need to blame others for the life they have. When I get an invitation to a "Pity Party" I run the other way. I know life is not perfect but crying about it will not change it. Here are some statements I try to live by and I hope maybe just one will make someone out there go hhmmmm....
No one can depress you. No one can make you anxious. No one can hurt your feelings. No one can make you anything other than what YOU allow.
The person looking back at you in the mirror is the one you have to answer to every day.
Stop focusing on what you do not have, and take stock of all that you DO have.
Life is never boring, but some people choose to be bored....boredom is a choice.
You can't expect to draw people into your life who are kind, confident, and generous if you're thinking and acting in cruel, weak, and selfish ways. You must put forth what you want to attract.
Two most unnecessary emotions in life are guilt and worry.
Self-worth cannot be verified by others. You're worthy because you say it is so. If you depend on others for your value, it is "other-worth".
Did you ever notice how difficult it is to argue with someone who's not obsessed with being right?
The highest form of ignorance is to reject something you know nothing about.
One of my all time favorites....
Every moment that you spend upset, in despair, in anguish, angry or hurt because of the behavior of anybody else is a moment in which you've given up control of your life.
Looking forward to your comments. *Smile*