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LovMyLife's blog: "LovMyLife"

created on 02/11/2009  |  http://fubar.com/lovmylife/b277114
**There are two kinds of beauty, inward and outward** You must posses both. Outward beauty will only get you so far with me but it must be there and has to match the inward beauty. Don't we all want someone were attracted too? I want someone who is Happy. Happiness comes from within. If youre not happy with yourself, you won't be happy with me or anyone for that matter. You may search for it, but its like striving after the wind. I want someone who is Healthy. As I get older, health is becoming more and more important to me. I work out regularly and I have goals in this area. I would like someone similar . If all you want to do is sit on your ass or if thats all youve been doing and you've allowed yourself to gain 30, 40 or even 50 lbs, please don't contact me. I don't mind a little body fat but the average for a woman is around 22% If you're 30% or more, I may not be interested. I hope that doesnt sound bad but I do want to be attracted to the person at least in the begining...I mean come on, looks eventually fad on us all. Also I like Clean and smelling good I want someone who is Loving. This is a very big one and I hope that every woman out there will read this part and and bennifit from it. ***Love*** is when you put the interest of the other person first. If you put your self first, youre being selfish which is the opposite of love. No relationship can stand firm if its one sided. You have to work on yourself and make adjustments and you have to work together to resolve issues that come up. Attitude is very important here. Attitude is a reflection of the heart. Its how you feel. How you feel can change how you view things and, how you view things can change how you feel. Very often in the beginning of a relationship you have such a positive view of the other person that you’re willing to overlook some negative things. As time goes by and the new wears off you begin to notice things or (view) things different. This in turn can change how you feel about that person and often times you begin to view them from a negative standpoint. It only gets worse so you have to learn to communicate how you feel and do it on a level that is understood. We guys seem stupid sometimes because we just don’t get it. Its not that we’re stupid, (well some areits that were just different. Women feel about things. With women, its mostly governed by emotions or feelings. Men Think about things. This is why when you have a problem and you try to tell a man how you feel all they want to do is fix it, when all you’re wanting is for them to listen and understand. Sorry… not going to happen, not for the most part anyway. Ill give you another example of the thinking and feeling philosophy. 99 % of the men out there will say anything he ( THINKS) you want to hear in order to have sex with you. Most of you already know this, but somehow you let your guard down. The man says things that you want to hear. He tells you how beautiful you are, how sweet you are, how he loves spending time with you, that your different and the list goes on and on. These are things you want to hear. It makes you (FEEL) good. It makes anyone feel good. Who doesnt want to hear good things said about them? For the most part though, it’s BS! And here is the key to knowing weather or not its BS. DONT HAVE SEX ! If youre looking for a long-term relationship make him wait. This is my opinion and I’ll bet this is at least 100% accurate. If you date a guy regularly and I’m talking about two, three or more times a week for about three months and hes still hanging around the chances are hes looking for a relationship. I want someone who is Sensual and Affectionate. This means that you love to be touched, kissed and caressed… a little on the freaky side doesn’t hurt either definitely a plus. Smell good and taste good ***What I Don’t Want*** Jealous: Can’t stand it and will not accept it. Conceited: You should never look down on others; your sh*t stinks like the next person. B*tchy: No one wants to be around someone who complains all the time and about every little thing. Get the corncob out of your butt and be happy. Life is way to short and can be gone in an instant, I’ve seen it.
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