I'd like to ask one simple question. Why people get stupid, and assume dumb things?
Ok, I'm married. I won't deny that. I have a 9 year old daughter. BUT I also have a lot of female friends. I have one guy friend that I consider a real friend. I play hockey (have my own team in a men's league, have had for 13 years), and because most of my women friends are the ones I hang out with, I'm automatically assumed that I'm a whore. Sorry, it's not happening like that. There's something wrong with having women friends? Whatever.
Call me different, but I'd rather go out to a nice dinner with a friend, go shopping, hang out and watch a movie or even cuddle. But if it's a guy thing, they're out fucking everything that walks, and just being stupid. I don't understand it. The minute a guy has women friends he's doing something wrong?
Why is it that people automatically assume the worst of you? I won't DENY that the situation I'm in isn't the BEST, and a lot of times I'm not happy. IF the "right" person came along, would I consider it? Absolutely. I've been pretty open about that for awhile. But does that mean everytime I see a female, the first thing I think about is sex? Nope.
Call me wierd. BUT I happen to like who I am. And now if others could just say "he's NOT a typical guy" and get over the stereotype bullshit, it'd be pretty ok.
that's me.
danny
