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The Vanishing Maturity of Men
Women, pay close attention to this; because you are primarily the cause of this problem going unnoticed. For many generations, men were the foundation of the family unit. And they made up the governing body of villages and cities where cultural and civic developments advanced civilizations. Men made their decisions based on careful thought and consideration for everyone involved. They were mature in all their ways and interest, and set good examples for their male children to follow.
Today, you will be hard pressed to find a single male who is truly mature. Most men today are more like large, old children; who set fun and play as a priority in their lives. They were raised to think that fun and play were the most important things for them to value, and they are unable to recognize maturity as a priority. Yes, they want to accomplish things and have things, but behind their façade of responsibility lies their deep motivation to have fun and play.
Women, you have helped to raise them with this mindset, and in your search to find a mate; you seek men who display this mindset or behavior and then are surprised to find that they do not possess a mature bone in their bodies. And you continue to allow this behavior to be acceptable. As you continue to struggle with a relationship that lacks a mature foundation.
Maturity is not just an attitude; maturity is an ability to demonstrate an appropriate response. To be able to demonstrate an appropriate response, one must first be able to recognize what is appropriate. Children do see beyond their own personal interest, this is a mark of immaturity. If an adult male demonstrates this, it is a clear sign that his ability to respond appropriately is immature. If this sign is overlooked, it will be taken as acceptable by the male and the development of maturity will be not considered. Women, if a man appears in his behavior to be immature, he is not going to become mature just because you give him what he asks for. Forget about that idea.
If women continue to seek and accept mating with immature men, this situation will only worsen. Men do not have an influence to mature in the world. The toys and games of the world feed their immaturity. This makes them easier to control and manipulate, don’t argue with them about it, they will only deny everything.
The challenge here is not to save the world; the challenge here is to save your own life. If you seek to have maturity as a part of your family foundation and are finding it very difficult to find among men, then change your area of search. The best example for all of mankind in how to respond appropriately to all situations in life comes from Jesus Christ. You could argue with this all you like, and you will not be the only one to suffer from not considering Him, your children and their children and their children will suffer.
Yes, it is not an easy choice to seek a mature man for your life. It is not an easy choice to consider maturity as a priority. It is not a wide gate that leads to ever lasting life either. The choice is yours; have a little fun now and pay forever or suffer a little while now and rejoice forever.
