I guess this might be more than I should be putting out here for the whole world to read but I guess in a sense you are strangers and yet friends. I am caught in the middle of something that I am having a hard time dealing with. What does a girl do when she is in love with 2 men? That is my predicament. I am in a great relationship with a man I love dearly. We have been dating since May of this year and have been through a lot together. He is sooo good to me. The other man I am in love with is a man I started dating in July of last year. We have tried and broke it off and tried some more. He is now in the military in CA and got married after I left him last. I think it was just he couldnt stand to be alone but that is my opinion. He tells me now that he isnt as happily married as he would like others to believe but that is what he needs to tell people to make himself believe it as well. With him in the military now, his wife is not supportive and saying she didnt get married to have her husband gone for the first year which I understand but she knew this was going to happen before they got married. I knew when he called me saying he would end up in Iraq in the next 6 months or so that he needed support and he wasnt getting it from his wife sadly enough. He knows that I love him and will never turn my back on him. So NOW WHAT? I am in a really rough spot right now. I dont want to lose something good by also wanting something that has bit me in the ass before.