Some people dont know what they have until its too late. HA! That'll teach them to be blind. One can only hope they dont find themselves wishing they had ever let a great thing slip out of their hands...so many do. Some even turn bitter form it...others...feel sorry for themselves. The smart ones learn and never make that mistake again. The brave admit their stupidity and go out on a limb to try and get it back. Something to be admired...bravery. Even better...to be admired and cherished...a person who appreciates their friends and lets them know in no uncertain terms what they mean to them on a regular basis. Even just to reaffirm the friendship once in a while can make foundations stronger and unyielding. It costs nothing to do...doesnt need much effort and it makes the recipient glad to have met and given themselves to such a great friend. It only makes things better.
Some people just dont get it do they? You cant expect a flower to grow and be pretty without water and sunshine...so how does a friendship survive in a void of feeling and attention? Love needs nurchering...it doesnt stay alive 'just because'. There is reason and cause for love to have started..and reason and cause for it to continue. I see it everywhere...its affecting so many people i know...this thing called neglect. My advice to poeple is to not accept anything less than what they give. If it becomes clear that your 'friends' suffer from 'out of sight- out of mind' or they are too selfish to onvolve you in their daily lives...then move on. They are not worth the effort it takes to keep them. Let it go. If it is something of substance...they will be 'brave' and restore what connection you had. If they dont...theres your answer. Stop giving sooo much that you suddenly have nothing left to give. There are many people on this planet...many sincere genuine people. Unfortunaltely you have to kiss alot of toads before you find your prince/ss. It is a shallow world and takes effort to delve deeper...but once you do that...you find a whole new breed of people who are searching for something more than what is on the surface.
Stay away from the fickle and blind and greedy. They are damaging to the soul. They have soul mates...just like them. Thats karma.
