I've always assumed that the big difference between men and women is the emotional attachment to sex. Women cannot separate the two but men have the ability. Over time this has proven not realistic in some scenarios. I've seen women who are just as non-attached and men who are very attached. Truthfully I've seen something that I would have never suspected. Now before anyone gets offended on what I'm about to say I advise you to read the whole thing before you may agree or disagree. Men and women have a totally different opinion of friendship and priorities in life as well as trust and stinginess. Women surprisingly you have failed in every category listed and before you pass judgement on me, let me explain the guys point of view to you. You may then tell me otherwise.
In a guys point of view a friend maybe someone you met 10 minutes ago or someone you have known since you both were in diapers. Trust is inharently given, not earned.. It doesn't really matter if it's a boy or a girl a "real friend" never sees the difference. You will defend this person until you die, and you would stand in front of a bullet for this person, that is unless this person betrays you and looses your trust. Ladies as far as I've seen ANYONE in your life has to earn your trust.. Now let's give this an example to back up my theory cause it sounds a little shaky.
Now lets say for example that you are married and one of you are friends with another married couple but your friend is of the opposite sex. Now... Your friend is having serious issues and is calling you constantly to ask your opinion on what you should do. OK here's two differences in one scenario... Now a man sees this as something their friend is trusting them with and that no matter who wants to know including their significant other they are not going to tell them what's going on.He's not lying to you he's not cheating on you he just feels it's none of your damn business to share his friends problem that they have shared with him. A woman immediately assumes there's an "item" between the male and the female and accuses them of cheating and trashes the relationship. A woman on the other hand would most likely try to tell their significant other IN DETAIL what is going on, when he really doesn't want to fucking hear it. It's your friend and he doesn't want to know what his problems are except to laugh at him later. He doesn't care about your male friend because you still come home to him every night and that insures him that you aren't going anywhere.
Now ladies I know right now you are saying, well he trusts me too much. Well there's a problem isn't it... A woman needs more assurance that a man loves her than just him climbing in bed with her at night... Why??? If we wanted something else we would be there, and not with you. Period. SO now who's being stingy??? A guy inharently gives you his love, trust, and respect, yet a woman demands PROOF of this everyday??? WTF?? What did we do wrong?? Sorry if your 1st boyfriend/husband was a dick but that's not our fault. How dare you demand anything from us when we give it willfully... So there!!! lol So now please prove me wrong.
