Hello and welcome to my blog! I was just sitting here and was hit with a amazingly stupid idea, and felt the need to write this failure of a blog.
Im at the point in my life where I am like WTF, just seriously about to say down with love. Im one of many that are the lasts of a dying breed. Its like come on now what do I have to do, so i am figuring i need to write and maybe in the process finally get over a few key things in my life. I will not lie to you what is written here is what has actually happend to me and not a friend. Anyways here goes.
1. The nice guy syndrome.
Lets see this is the most basic and annoying lie that seems to exsist, cause lets face I am a nice guy, hell I am one of those guys that you always hear girls saying they want...and thats where it ends. What I have realized is that girls dont really want the nice guy, because when there is a option girl will always choose the asshole over you. Heres the kicker they would want to be friend, and use you as a shoulder to cry on because your such a good guy, you listen to them.
Trust me you'll be saying to yourself you knew this would happen, you predicted what would happen from the very start then wonder how come she couldnt tell. As nice as it is to be a good guy, and i commend those of you who are being nice is this age is what will lead to our down fall.
2. The "I love you for your personality""Im attracted to your personality" yada yada
This is kinda a sore subject for me but I will go on talking about it anyways. Basically when you hear "I love you for your personality" its because the other person hasnt had enough time to judge you on your looks. Basically meaning 1 of 2 things.
A) They actually do and decide that your worth keeping
or
B) They lied about liking your personality and became attracted to your looks and the moment you change your looks its out the door with you.
**actual example**
I was with someone who before we met he had got to know eachothers personalities but we were very aware of what one another looked like . Anyways i never liked to shave cause i hated looking like a 18 year old and constantly hearing pretty boy, but i was always clean and it was maintained. Because I didnt shave it lead to not being wanted being avoided of all contact and ultimately getting dumped on valentines day.
3. Im celibate, your what?
Basically for those of you who do not know this is what celibacy is:
Celibacy refers to the lack of participation in sexual intercourse.
Now this one gets me for the humor you hear all the time women talking about they want a guy to like em for more then just their bodies. Well I am celibate and not everything is about sex with me cause lets face there are more important things then sex. Heres the kicker if your celibate and a nice guy girls treat you like your gay or act like there lie something worng with you.
temporary closing i will be adding on soon
