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I recently had a male friend of mine ask me, "Would you rather have sex with a guy who had a thick 9" penis, a guy with an average 6" penis, or a smaller 4" one and why?" To this, I replied that there wasn't enough information presented to formulate a real opinion. After an exasperated sigh on his end (which I seem to get regularly, due to my constant need for more information), I explained the entire mystery regarding what women think of penis size, and it's that knowledge I share today with you fine folks.
First, size DOES matter, but only in terms of confidence, really. What a girl generally finds is that, those packing the "big guns" tend to be rather self aware, and their ego often allows them to overlook performance. Similarly, those with smaller than average packages fail to have much in the area of confidence, and this too may be related in the bedroom. Here's the reality:
Big Boys: The Pros - In a way, penis size is a bit like breast size. While some like the appearance of something smaller, the vast majority of women enjoy the APPEARANCE of a large member. The Cons - The fact of the matter is, just like a woman with large jugs, a large erection does NOT equal a great sexual experience. It can limit certain positions or even injure the receiving partner - none are things we women are dreaming about. In other words, get over it already. Commit to being a better communicator in the bedroom, and realize that we aren't quite as impressed with your manhood as you are.
The Small Boys: The Pros - These are the guys who typically are much more aware of what women actually enjoy in the bedroom...a sort of, making up for the difference, so to speak. The Cons: A lack of confidence will work against you when the point of a sexual adventure is simple - both people enjoying the experience. Again, I give the same advice...get over it already. It's not about having the flashiest tool in the drawer...it's knowing what you can do with it that counts.
The "Average" Boys: The Pros - Physically, these guys are designed for the female body. Most people don't realize, but there IS an average length to the vaginal canal. Is it any surprise that the average is very close to the average penis size? This gives a couple the most options in regards to positions, etc. The Cons - I can't think of a specific con, per se, other than not taking advantage of the diversity awarded to you. Keep mixing it up, guys. Variety is the spice of life. ;)
To summarize, penis size really doesn't have a lot to do with actual enjoyment of sexual activity. Rather, a partner who communicates openly, who we find attractive, and who we trust enough to relay our own sexual desires - that's the guy that's gonna win in the sack.
Please understand, all of my personal blurbs are my own OPINION, and in no way are meant to offend anyone. I openly encourage those to express different perspectives, and ask me to expand or explain anything in which you would like clarification. If you'd like me to rant about a particular topic in your mind, by all means, let me know. I'm willing to take on any challenge with the same objectivity.
ATTENTION: I'm looking for someone willing to do this on his OWN profile...a sort of "male perspective" sort of deal. Any takers?
