There are many sides of love,of course there is the fairytale side of love where you love them they love you the sex is unbelievable,you cuddle and you call each other on the phone and talk for hours ...god it's so wonderful.And then reality of the real love hits home,the sex may still be good but when your done you just turn your seprate ways and go to sleep or just leave,and when you talk on the phone it gets annoying you might ask if they're coming by and they reply i don't know so the feeling that once felt so great turns into a pain that consums you.So I envy all of those people who hide themselves in endless liaison teasing peolpe drawing them in and then pushing them away.That is the safe way to do things.But all in all I think it is better to have never loved at all than to be consumed by it,because once you have it and it's gone you'll spend the rest of your life trying to get it back.