Okay so women lie just as well as men, or do we? I honestly think it is 50/50, look at society today, we are who we are and "you choose" decisions in what you do, no one makes those decisions for you. You are held accountable for your actions, but do we accept them most of the time, I don't think so, but yet that is "my" opinion.
Actually with all the dates I had been on since my divorce, I heard the same story over and over from men and is as follows: I went on a date with this chick, we hit it off, things were going great and then 3 months later, boom, she turns psycho or just acts totally different than what I had seen in those months. I have seen those as I have met some of my friends g/f's and it holds true. But it also holds true on women meeting men. So wouldn't you think it is an even keel?
Thing is, I don't think people truly and honestly get to know that person long and deep enough, they just jump into it full bolt. Also, don't pretend you are someone you are not. I mean, one of my friends really like this girl he met on a dating site, she was hot in her picture, but he took a picture of when he saw her and she really didn't want to meet in person and I could see why. She wasn't who she said she was today. That was her back in college. How do you expect people to appreciate the person within when you lied to them begin with? I mean come on. People look for inner beauty and also honesty from people. One thing harder is gaining that honesty and trust back once you knocked it to begin with. If you can't love yourself how do you expect people to love you?
One thing I have learned in my years of redefining who I am and relearning me since my divorce is that if you can't wake up, look at yourself in the mirror and smile and tell yourself I am happy with who I am and what I am, that I am a beautiful person, how do you expect to make it through the day? You should be able to do that everyday. Yes we all have our moments, but if there isn't one day and you are hurting that bad inside, then something is wrong within and you need to gain that strength back. If I can do it from where I was, trust me anyone can do it. I have been through hell and back again, but at least today after all those struggles I can hold my head high and be proud for where I am today regardless what anyone else thinks. And I hold true to what makes us weak, ALWAYS makes us stronger!
You know in dating, there are certain rules that everyone should follow and it holds true in my book I can say that. One, if you have been married or have dated someone for a long stretch of time that was truly serious and you are no longer together, you should wait a year before being in a relationship again, that is a fact. Because in all honesty? It is all about sex and it won't last. 9 times out of 10 that is true. Some may, but not many. I didn't believe it at first when I was told that statement, but it held true.
Now back to the original subject, women lie just as good as men and not all in both sexes do, I was just frustrated that day and had to vent.....lol Trust me I know some sweethearts and would never call them that, but some (yes both sexes) just know how to get the feathers in a whirl so to speak.
I shall end here for now cause I still am not feeling well.....so you all have a very happy Easter, although it is a week away. Have a wonderful Psalm Sunday. :)
