I'm noticing that people have a problem with distinguishing the difference between loving someone and being in love with someone. I love my cat, I love my friends, and I love to read a good book. I'm in love with my kids, myself, and my family. The ability to distinguish between the two comes with age, experience and knowledge. If someone says that they love you, don't automatically assume that they are in love with you. Just because I love spending time with a person does not mean that I'm in love with them.
Luv ya!