a slave ...
... is an individual born with a slave spirit. No one can make an individual have this spirit; nothing can be done to create this state in an individual's being. No one trying hard or wishing for this sense of spirit can develop it within themselves, and no Master can cause it to occur. A slave is an extraordinary human being who is born with this slave spirit _ as much as they are born to breathe, or to have gifted talents like design or music.
A slave is extraordinary, rare _ and most often confused until they discover their slave spirit heart. Most slaves wander through life feeling unfulfilled _ as if they have a "dark hole" in their spirit _ a hole that can be temporarily filled with an abundance of sex, work, addictive behavior or other whole-life-consuming factors.
Slaves often have a sense of the spiritual (some become clergy), but feel this sense of spiritual awareness to be disconnected from their desire for a Mastery/slavery relationship. A slave has a right to feel joy and pride in their slavery and in service to a Master.
In their confusion, many slaves interpret Dominance as Mastery; SM as completion; or fetish focus as the fulfillment of the "dark hole" in their spirit. Many can find enough fulfillment in these areas to develop a sense of "wholeness" (often a quiet longing exists; although for what, the slave doesn't know).
Heart of slave can be actualized only when the spiritual journey occurs that connects this "dark hole" in the spirit, first to the whole spirit, and then to the universe. It is a process of a painful and trusting leap of faith that causes this connectedness to occur _ a truly spiritual journey. Heart of slave can only be complete in service to a Master and it is within this service that the spiritual journey occurs. slavery is not about a "hard dick or clit experience," although hard dicks and clits happen and are enjoyed.
Slavery is the completion of a spirit in search of "connectedness" in the universe.
