Kissing is a delicate art and must be taken slowly with a new
partner. A good kisser knows how to pace themselves, has an active
imagination, and understands what their partner likes or may not
expect, but will enjoy. When kissing, remember the following: never
slobber, don't stare, try not to belch, always pay attention with your
non-visual senses (touch, hearing, ESP, etc.), and there is no such
thing as too slow. If you are unhappy with a kiss then chances are
your partner is going to feel the same way. The best thing you can do
is relax, and not just in your body, but your face, lips, neck,
everywhere. Be relaxed and confident with how you kiss. Let yourself
go with the flow of the moment and savour every second of it. While
you are kissing, remember to use your hands, nose, and breath to
entice your partner's senses. Everyone enjoys being touched anbd
caressed while being kissed. Use your hands to gently caress the
cheek, the jawbone, the back, arms, and collarbone.
A gentle exhalation of air, that does not smell foul, can provide
your partner with extremely light, warm feelings on their face, mouth,
and neck that can be quite arousing. Never "attack" someone when you
kiss them, unless they like that sort of thing, and most people don't.
Treat their lips like you would a dangerous creature. Move in slow and
prepare for the kiss. Initial contact should be lips only, firm, yet
gentle. React to how your partner is kissing. If they speed up, speed
up with them. If they slow down, follow suit. Try to synchronize your
actions with one another and always pay attention to their body
language. The following is a list of some simple techniques to spice
up a kiss:
Triumverat Kiss between the eyes, on the tip of the nose, and
then on the lips. Top and Bottom Kiss the top lip, then the bottom
lip, then both.
Lickable Lips Run the tip of your tongue along your partner's lips.
Earlobecstacy Gently kiss, nibble, and suck on the
earlobe. Facial Lines Trace the neck and jawbone with your lips and
tongue. The Big Tease Kiss everywhere but the lips, until your partner
pulls you to their lips. Caressed Lips Rub your finger gently across
their lips and then go in for a kiss. Sensuality Look in their eyes
and whisper you want to kiss them. Press your lips gently to theirs',
caress their lips with yours and then give her/him a passionate kiss.
Cheeky Gently brush cheeks with your partner. Eskimo Kiss Gently rub
the tips of your noses together. Butterfly Brush eyelashes with your
partner. Make a fluttering motion of the eyelash by quickly opening
and closing the eye. Rose Petals Make a small "O" with your lips.
Press your lips against your partner's skin and suck softly. Lift your
lips off a little, move over slightly, and repeat.
Hostage Kiss Cover your lips with tape and get your partner's
attention. When they come near, make noises like you're trying to tell
them something and motion as if you can't get the tape off. Once they
remove the tape from you to hear what you're trying to say, tell them,
"I've been saving my lips all day just for you!" Then kiss them
passionately. Strawberry Secret Place a strawberry in your mouth
without your partner knowing. Crush the strawberry in your mouth and
feed some to your partner while you kiss. Cold as Ice Put a piece of
ice in your mouth without your partner knowing. Kiss them on the neck
and let the ice softly touch their skin. Back Kisses Snuggle up behind
your partner and proceed to cover their back with little kisses. Foot
Kisses When your lover comes home from work, or wherever, wash their
feet and give them a massage. While you're giving them the massage,
lean over and give little kisses on their feet. Hershey's Kiss Try not
to kiss
your partner all day. Throughout the day leave Hershey's kisses or
some sort of romantic candy in places that they will know it's for
them. Later in the day start leaving notes with poetry or quotes on
kissing for them. After that, leave a love letter describing how you'd
like to kiss them and the satisfaction that it would bring you. Once
you feel they've had enough teasing, spend sometime rewarding them
with lots of kissing! This is rewarding for yourself as well, since
you've been thinking about kissing them all day too. Red Light Kiss
When in the car with your partner, every time you stop at a red light,
lean over and kiss them until the light goes green.
Recorded Kiss Record the sound of yourself blowing a kiss. Then
either e-mail it to your partner or leave a note somewhere with
instructions to press play. Video Kiss Record on a videotape or web
cam yourself blowing kisses to your partner and tell them how much you
miss them. E-mail Kiss Draw or animate a
pair of lips kissing. Then send it to your sweetheart.
The Lost Kiss Look around your partner, looking under things and
appearing like you're searching for something. When asked what you're
looking for, say "I've been looking for a kiss all day but I can't
find one anywhere. Oh wait, I found it." Then give your partner a
kiss. Wake Up Kiss Before your partner awakes, lean over and kiss
their cheek. Then give soft kisses across their cheek until you reach
their lips. Make Up Kisses At the end of the day, sit down with your
partner and ask them how his/her day went. Silently keep track of all
the bad things that happened during the day. When he/she is finished,
give them a kiss for each one. When asked what you are doing, say you
are helping make up for all those bad things. Post-It Kiss Make a
post-it note trail that leads to your lips. On each note leave a
lipstick kiss and an arrow or clue to find the next note. Place the
last note over or near your lips.
Full Body Meltdown While your partner is laying down, slip over
to them and start running your tongue, very gently, up their leg,
arms, reaching their lips give them a full passionate kiss. The
Grandious Tease Softly run your fingers across your partner's lips,
lure them in to kissing you, but before you kiss, pull away and then
go in for the kiss, then pull away again, etc., etc
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