Dear Rob, Arnie and Dawn,
Thank you for reading my letter the other day about "Was I wrong to care?" It really helped make it an GREAT day!
Rob, as always I value your opinion which was why I wrote in the first place. Seeing as it was a Dr. Rob letter yours is the only opinion that counts and its nice to know that I am not the only one to see that I wasn't wrong for caring. Cared too much maybe, but that's who I am and I have accepted it. It's not my fault that he took the "Arnie" way out.
Dawn, your reaction to when you found out I was dumped in a text was priceless. I almost spit out my coffee laughing at my desk. I guess it isn't THAT bad to have some Dawn tendencies. :)
Arnie Arnie Arnie. Instead of offending me you amuse me. I am unlike your 'Psycho ex-girlfriends" in many ways. I never once asked or demanded anything from my ex other than some of his time and a hug. And by some I mean a couple of hours once or twice a week, if that. I NEVER stalked him, went/broke into his house, ran around in his clothes, or thought that he had lied to me about what he was doing. I called him ONCE not twice and yes texted him more than I should have I admit that part, but it only take 30 seconds to say "goin out of town, wont have my phone, talk to you later" The only thing I EXPECTED of him was to treat me with the same common courtesy that I bestowed upon him. And while you may not believe the events that happened to me in the month of May, I still have the bruises from the accident and the nightmares of trees falling on people to prove it. Just thought I'd clarify even though i was laughing at your tirade the whole time!
I have e-mailed the ex only once to remind him that he has possessions at my house, if he wants them he needs to let me know other wise they will end up in one of three places, goodwill, the trash or sent up to you guys for your piles of crap. I also told him he took a cowards (the"Arnie") way out. Had he just said hey we need to talk and told me straight out, even if he had done something stupid, I wouldn't have cried, Hell I didn't care that he broke up with me just the way he did it, and honesty is the best policy in my book. I have deleted his number out of my phone, and his e-mail address out of my contacts.
Tomorrows a new day and I wish him no ill will, only good luck and happiness. But Arnie.... I hope YOU get aids! ha ha :) Rob and Dawn thanks again!
D in Sacramento
