1. THOU SHALT PAY ATTENTION TO THE DETAILS OF HER DESIRE:
Find and touch her personal, "pleasure points." A sub's Emotional and Physical pleasure points are chinks in her "armor" that allow her to receive erotic pleasure and fulfillment.
2. THOU SHALT STIMULATE HER SENSES:
Looking good is never bad. But women are less visual than Men, so it's
vital that you speak to all her senses. Say arousing things, be clean,
smell and taste pleasant and remember she is sensitive to touch.
Explore the sensual paradise of her body.
3. THOU SHALT COMPLIMENT HER MEANINGFULLY AND OFTEN:
Compliment her body, and she'll be more likely to want to share it
with you. Respect her mind, and she'll give you the key to unlock her desires...Just
because you've told her you love her once, doesn't mean you shouldn't tell
her again--and again.
4. THOU SHALT ENCOURAGE HER TO SHOW AND TELL WHAT PLEASES HER:
Reassure her that it's okay for her to tell you what turns her on.
Tell her to masturbate for you and watch her carefully, not just for your
own pleasure, but to see how she likes to be touched.
5. THOU SHALT LISTEN TO HER THOUGHTS:
Learn about who she is, what she's been through, in her life, what
she needs and what she desires. Talk to her, but most of all, listen to
her, and she'll never stop sharing herself with you. Discover the little
girl inside your sub. Play with her, and she'll never grow old.
6. THOU SHALT MAKE HER LAUGH:
Amuse your sub, be a fool for love. Laughter is a mental orgasm.
If her Master can make her laugh, her soul will be revealed and her mind/body
will belong to Him.
7. THOU SHALT GIVE HER REWARDS AND GIFTS:
Every woman since the dawn of time has responded to a gift as if it
were an erotic act. Reward her when she is "good" and surprise her
at random times. The specific "gift" is not important, it could be emerald
earrings, sexy lingerie, a flower plucked from a field, or your emotional
support in a crisis. It is the "giving" that will win her heart and soul.
8. THOU SHALT RADIATE CONFIDENCE AND SENSITIVITY:
Master's confidence makes her feel secure. His strength excites
her. His sensitivity makes him accessible, warm and lovable.
Demonstrate and talk about your feelings.
9. THOU SHALT UNDERSTAND AND ENJOY FOREPLAY:
The key part of foreplay is "play." Be patient and sensual. Tease
her mind and body. Learn to kiss, lick, and touch every part of her
and allow sufficient time for her to enjoy her pleasure and reach that
bliss that she seeks.
10. THOU SHALT EXPLORE HER DREAMS AND ENCOURAGE HER:
Listen and help her to explore and understand her dreams, hopes, and
ambitions. Guide and encourage her efforts to achieve her goals.
Talk about and explore her sexual fantasies and help her to realize them.
