Because Tantra is a mystical subject, it is nearly impossible to define. Tantra is a spiritual, sexual science that is not static in its definition.
When we embrace Tantra, we become more "complete." By identifying and stimulating our innate sensual spirituality, we discover parts of ourselves that have been repressed. We can learn to use Tantric energy for sexual pleasure and awareness above all.
Familiarity with Tantra can help a person enjoy their sex life to its fullest potential. It can help do away with guilt or fear, and break down self-imposed or limiting cultural boundaries (as is the case in most Western societies).
Tantra teaches us to become familiar with our mystical nature, and when we do so, our boundaries (sexual and otherwise) expand. We enter into new realms of awareness. We become empowered and more fulfilled -- and the orgasms experienced in this state of consciousness are not just incredible, they're explosive and potentially unending.
it's all about sexual freedom
Tantra is the total surrender of all mental, emotional and cultural conditioning, so that universal life energy can flow through you freely. Tantra not only expands consciousness, it liberates it.
It treats sexual energy as an ally, rather than something to be suppressed or discussed behind closed doors. It does not deny sex, just the opposite in fact; it embraces sex. Tantra is the only spiritual path that states that sex is sacred and not a sin.
There is a most beautiful word for sex in the Sanskrit language, and that is Kama, which means sex and love go together; they're undivided and indivisible. Most everyone is familiar with the classic Kama Sutra, the 7th century Tantric scripture.
let your sexuality run rampant
The essence of Tantra is the full expression of existence; a merging with, rather than a withdrawing from sexual energy. This energy is used as ignition for firing the body's biological energy system, merging it (and you) with universal energy.
In Tantra, sex is used as the cosmic union of opposites, to create the polarity charge that connects with the primordial energy from which everything arises in the universe... the totality of All.
The basic difference between unenlightened sexuality and Tantra is that sex becomes sacred and divine when you approach it from your heart and body, rather than solely from your mind.
Some sexual positions from the Kama Sutra that you should try... Next >>
sexual awareness and enjoyment
Tantric sex is meditative, spontaneous and very intimate lovemaking. You learn to prolong the act of making love and to focus on, rather than dispel, potent orgasmic energies moving through you, thereby raising the level of your consciousness.
Tantra transports sexuality from simply doing to actually being. There is no end goal in Tantric sex, only the present moment of an ideal, harmonious union. Tantra teaches you to worship your sexual partner and to transform the act of sex into a sacrament of love.
Lovemaking between two partners, when entered with awareness, can be a gateway to sexual and spiritual ecstasy alike. Tantric sex attempts to awaken powerful psychic energies within through which we can enter into higher states of consciousness.
the power of ecstasy
Imagine that you and your partner could merge the dual nature of your sexuality into an ecstatic union through the act of lovemaking. Now that's a spicy meatball!
As sexual beings, we have the ability to raise the energy within ourselves and use it to experience mystical states of consciousness. In effect, we become "gods" of our own bodies. And honestly speaking, who doesn't want to be a god?
sexual positions of the kama sutra
The flower in bloom
Your woman draws up both her knees until they nestle the curves of her breasts; her feet find your armpits. She cups and lifts her buttocks with her palms, spreads her thighs and places her heels next to her hips, while you caress her breasts.
Sounds difficult? Well, practice makes perfect.
The jewel case
Your legs should lie along hers, joining them from toes to thighs. Your woman can remain below you, or you can lie side by side, in which case she should always be on your left.
To add a twist to the element, your thighs are interlaced and squeeze each other in a pulsating rhythm. This is called "The Squeeze".
The rustic
Let her to lie on her back with both her thighs pressed tightly together and make love to her, keeping your thighs outside hers. Because the vagina ends up embracing and engulfing the penis in its entirety, it becomes quite enjoyable.
Striking
Your woman is in a sitting position with raised thighs, and her feet should be placed on either side of your waist; when you penetrate her, push your entire penis forcefully in and out of her.
The cat
Let your woman lie on her stomach while you grab hold of her ankles in your right hand, lift them high up and make love, all the while rubbing her face, neck and between her chest with your other hand.
The tripod
While standing against or near a wall, hold up one of her knees firmly in one hand and make love to her; but leave her hands free to explore and caress your body.
Sounds good to me.
The buffet
While she's lying on the edge of a flat, sturdy surface, withdraw your penis completely from her vaginal area, and then penetrate her wholly in one shot. Do this continuously until she reaches orgasm (chances are this shouldn't take too long).
always keep in mind...
Remember that you should always maintain eye contact with your partner and allow yourself to feel with more than just your penis. Your entire existence should be involved in the process. And your soul, according to Tantra, completes the experience.
Communication is still the greatest key to healthy sexual relationships, so talk to her before, during and after your sessions.
Until next time, keep exploring the endless possibilities.
