tantric's blog: "Tant's Ramblings"

so here it goes. I've given all my money away to a scammer is it possible I'm this stupid?  Apparently I'm fairly pathetic and will believe anything so now what do I do, I suffer the consequences apparently because I really do deserve to suffer them.  I'm so disappointed in myself and my gulliblity.  But lesson learned! So beware of these people that say they love you but really just want all your money and are very crafty about getting it. not sense crying about it now, but boy its hurts alot.

So this couple that are originally from my home town, a little town of 4500 people, well they moved back. They hate it here so I'm not sure really all the reasoning behind it but mostly because they are broke and they have family here.  Very loving couple like 2 peas in a pod, or as another friend of their called them 2 nuts in a shell but anyway. He is a type 1 diabetic and he takes pretty good care of himself and they've been back here about 7 months.

Anyway on May 4th he had a diabetic incident where his blood sugar bottomed out and his wife did everything possible to get it back up but he died.  Very sad.  And it gets worse and I'm mean I dont take his death lightly he was a very sweet guy.

However, his wife and I love her dearly I mean it, but she is the most negative person I know she figures tht everyone is out to screw her over or just be ignorant to her and I mean literally she believes this and now her husband passes away and she tells me...."see I told you my life sucks"  well I sure can't argue the point now.  However before he passed he wasn't looking that hard for a job and I don't think shes ever had a job in her life so it was a touch irritating to hear her complain about her life but do nothing about it you know what I mean.  I've always been told if your not happy with your life change it.

They didnt talk to his family at all for some reason they were at odds about something.  So he didn't want a service and he didn't want his picture in the paper or anywhere when he died .  Oh let me back up.  The day he died his sister went out to his wifes with her family and they seemed to get along. And then the coroner had phoned and asked her if it was alright if his family came and viewed him that day, well she said that was no problem.  but they were too busy to go view him that day, which i think is pure bullshit and they didn't even go to visit her or their oldest son the day their son died.

So anyway she had him creamated and she put up a notice that he had passed away and there would be no service by request.  Well then in the local newspaper that comes out on wednesday, his parents and siblings have put a big notice in the paper about his death and about having an open house and it was very nice.  Well the wife is now so mad says its disrespectful to do that because she had told his sister that isn't what he wanted.  But alot of people here in this town don't know that she doesn't get along with her husbands family and if she doesn't go to this open house at the anglican church people that come to see her and her son are not going to understand why shes not there. But I just don't think she sees it that way and its so frustrating.

But I just think sometimes you have to bite the bullet and be the bigger person and just go and show her husbands family that they didn't get the best of her and make her out to the bad person and them the good ones, so sad the feuds people have after a death.