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W/we invited very few people as W/we did not wish for it to be a circus. The words W/we "spoke" to each O/other were serious in context, as O/our intentions are.
W/we were presided over by BC Daddy McSpanks. O/our witnesses were Dolly Dagger and Goddess. It was attended by some close friends, along with some real life friends and my real life daughter.
The words below, are O/our creeds to E/each other.
my words:
yotd: Sir...No creed that has been written by someone elses hand will i write here. These words are my own, and written for You alone.
i offer You my submission. Completely and with total trust, and the utmost respect. Know that You have captured my heart and that it is Yours and no one elses. My heart...my mind...and my body is Yours and i give these to You freely, fully and without restriction.
i kneel before You....Your present...Your future. i promise to honor O/our relationship above all others, and seek to fulfil Your needs and desires as You allow. i promise to communicate openly and honestly with you and i strive to be the best soul mate that i can for You. i will never dishonour you.
You are my Master. The One that i love and adore. Acceptance of what i offer, is Yours to take.
His words:
Soda: My beloved babydoll. Within your eyes i find your submission. Within your submission i find my heart. Within my heart i find my soul. Within my soul i find you.
It is my honor to accept your submission. Tis not about restraint, nor is it about punishment. Tis about absolute freedom. Freedom within one's self, to proudly be who and what you are. This is the gift i give to you in return for your submission.
I am honored to have you in my collar. I promise to love and to guide you always, and never to lead you astray. You are my beloved babydoll an i your Master as it should be.
The ending of the ceremony:
BC Daddy: You place Your collar upon her Sir Soda, as a symbol of your acceptance, year of the dragon, you wear His collar as a symbol of your acceptance. What Daddy McSapnks has joined, let only dishonor unjoin.
Soda: *places and locks her collar an stands her up next to him, as it should be*
I do not expect everyone to understand the significance of O/our words. The collar placement is like the placement of a wedding ring in a vanilla relationship. A contract was also drawn up between the T/two of U/us.
I will be very straightforward here. This relationship is NOT about physical nor mental overlording. As a proper Master, Soda will be entrusted with my well being, in all areas of my life. As i am with Him. I have heard so much about subs/slaves staying in physically abusive relationships because that is what they believe it to be about.
IT IS NOT.
It is about trust, honor, respect and love. A Master that abuses any sub/slave? Is not a True Master and does not deserve anyones respect. The offering that a submissive/slave makes to their One, is a gift that should be treasured and held with reverence by their Master.
Remember that. Tis important to foster a healthy relationship between the T/two.
Anyways. :) W/we wanted to give you a peek into a ceremony and i am happy to share O/ours with you. Hopefully, this will give you some understanding into it. Tis not freakish, tis a choice many in todays society make. i'll get into the various collars etc in later blogs.
Peace out
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