How singular is the thing called pleasure, and how curiously related to pain, which might be thought to be the opposite of it; For they are never present to a man at the same instant, and
yet he who pursues either is generally compelled to take the other." --Plato
In the time I have been in the BDSM lifestyle, I have come to realize that I am a switch. I have also come to realize that being a switch is often looked down on. I have been called a fence setter, fickle and not true to the lifestyle. I don't get this ... it reminds Me of so called "Witches" telling Me I am not a witch , because I am not in a coven. I am sorry .. but bullshit.. We as human are much more complex.. I am much more complex....
My Dominance: For Me it's like riding a fine horse, driving a good muscle car,or being on a Harley... All that power in My control... it moves the way I want it to move. All of that power at My finger tips, just waiting to see where I will lead it or let it go. It gets Me going just thinking about it.... I like strong submissive men... can't stand a wimpy sissy boy.....
My Submission: Belongs to one Man. He has opened My world. He has earned the right to Dominate Me, because He does not try to do so. He Handles Me..I am a Strong , fierce Woman, and a scared little girl. I am a Kite and He holds the string, guiding Me , leading Me, never letting Me fall. He is the one place I can just be the girl. I can curl up in His arms and He makes Me feel safe, and I NEED that.
As I grow, I find I NEED both of these things in My life. So don't put your labels on Me. I am Me, switch and all ....love it or leave it... but keep your labels to yourself....
