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Men give love for sex while women give sex for love. This makes me wonder, what is really love? Is it really sex masquerading as something acceptable to society? Does it really follow that if you love someone, you have to engage in carnal pleasures with that special someone? As a child I was taught that "love sees beyond the imperfections of your lover". While others say "love is blind." Well, I prefer to believe the first one however the second maxim gives me some tempting options.

When it comes to courtship, it is thought that the fool proof strategy to be successful in establishing a relationship is to go through the friend stage first and then progress to the lover level. However, this is a form of deception because the man is hiding his true intentions. Well, to sleep with the girl of which his eyes set upon. These men are just waiting for an opportunity to unveil his agenda. While the ladies on the other hand, are less prepared in taking the relationship to the next level. As a result, those men who practiced deception in picking up women end up being dumped. Consequently, this method is less effective since most men who practiced this art of deception experienced loss of resources and self-esteem.

The other method will be to reveal your true intentions upon first encounter. According to Joseph Matthews in his book, the Art of Approaching, "the man must be subtle but engaging". Subtle in order not to arouse the ladies' defenses but engaging to sustain interest. This way, women won't have a hard time adjusting to drastic change from friendship to courtship. Which is also convenient to the part of the men. Since they can move on if they are dumped or proceed to bed if access if acceptable. Thus resources, time and not to mention self-esteem which is highly regarded by most men are spared.

Are you contented of being alone left to stimulate yourself in the cold nights or are you open to the possibility that you can get the woman that you always dream about? The choice is yours.

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www.creamynick23.com
www.artofapproaching.com

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