GingerVonSleaze's blog: "When The Music Changes, So Does The Dance.."

I've learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life. I've learned that it takes a long time to become the person I want to be. I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you ever see them. I've learned  that you can keep going long after you can't. I've learned that we are responsible for what we do,  no matter how we feel. I've learned that you either control our attitude or it controls you.  I've learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there better be something  else to take its place. I've learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences. I've learned that money is a lousy way of keeping score. I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time. I've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when your down will be the ones that help you get back up. I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry, I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel. I've learned that true friendship continues to grow even over the longest of distances. Same goes for TRUE LOVE!! I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesnt mean they dont love you with all they have. I've learned that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you once in a while and you must forgive them for that. I've learned that sometimes it isn't enough to be forgiven by others, SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO LEARN TO FORGIVE YOURSELF. I've learned that no matter how much your heart is broken, the world does NOT stop for your grief. I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become. I've learned that just because two people argue doesnt mean they dont love each other, and just because they dont argue doesnt mean they do love each other. I've learned that we dont have to change friends if we understand that friends change. I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever. I've learned that two people can look at exactly the same thing and see something totally different. I've learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who dont even know you. I've learned that even when you think you have nothing more to give,-if a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help. I've learned that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being. I've learned that the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.