Well I just got back from North Carolina and I had a real good time. My family invited me to stay with them just like they've been trying to do since I was 8 and I think I'm finally ready for it. I feel selfish but I'm making a decision for myself and I think it would be best. I love the south. Everyone is so much friend, they have shrimp sauce, and so many other things. My family there is still crazy but I've got 3 houses to run to, school to take care of, a job to find, a really great southern gentleman who I think I'm really starting to like. I have honestly never been treated so well in all my life by a man.