I had a friend “Bob”. He liked this girl “Bonnie.”
I found out Bonnie was lying to him, about a lot of different things. He claims he knew she was sleeping with other men-but I could tell he was really hurt when he found out. I did not know it was wrong for me to tell him. I would want someone to tell me the person I really like was seeing someone else, or sleeping with someone else.
Bonnie has bitched me out today. He sent me a text in the middle of the night telling me we could no longer be friends. Upon reading his text message I cried. Then I read an e-mail he sent me this morning and cried again.
I have known for about 3 or 4 weeks now she was lying to him. I have known about the other men for a long time, he never did tell me if he knew about them or not.(Before I told him yesterday) So I finally told him everything I knew. (Yesterday)
It back fired because he no longer wants to be my friend.
I honestly thought being a true friend was telling someone the truth.
If someone lied to me I would want to know! I would like to be given the chance to be less hurt in the long run.
I just want to say on my own behalf:
Bob I am sorry you and Bonnie seem to think I was being nosey. I am sorry you seem to think I am the liar. I would never do anything to hurt you. I am sorry I did. I also know you will never forgive me for being honest.
When you figure it all out, I will still be here. I am so sorry.
It’s not like I told Bonnie’s husband about her being a cheat.
BUT I could.
The thing is I wont.
I told you because you are a kind sweet soul, and you my friend do not need to be hurt by her.
NO I do not want you.
BUT I am sorry, I guess you will have to figure out everything on your own, dude.
