how do you deal with a 6 year old that is talkin about wanting to kill herself and is being extremly destructive ripping up books, throwing chairs, hitting me, throwing major fits cause i tell her its bed time or cause im makin something for dinner that she dont want.......i have her in councosling but how do i deal with it till that starts helping i feel like im going out of my mind i feel like nothing i do is the right thing and i cant do anything right cause if i raise my voice she gets even more violent and if i try to hold her so she cant hit or throw things she starts to bite and kick and anything else she can do.....if anyone has any suggestions it would be greatly appricatated